Rite,i wanna express my feeling abit ah..hehe..here it goes..i feel that,if sumone one change into better person,becos he/she wants to and not becos of a particular person..ok maybe partly of it correct,change becos of that person,but then the rest is all up he/she to change..so ya,i feel if in relationship,this will be like one sided relationship.

eg,he quit smoking becos of two things,his health and also becos of sumone he love but on the other hand,she don wanna change becos she was use to her lifestyle and dun wanna change without even a TRYING and of coz many reason will be cumming out from her mouth but pelinye,she wanna chg becos of him and not becos of she wants too,so ya if she change becos of him,i think thats like being force to chg and not happy with the chg.this is like not fair,he wants to chg becos she ask too and becos of his health he wants to chg,but then when he ask she to chg she will say that the boy is not taking her seriusly la and bla3 answer,this is like seriusly not fair..To me thats krik2 for life..so the bottom line is PEOPLE CHANGE BECOS HE?SHE WANTS TOO AND NOT BEING FORCE TOO CHG..this is just a scenario,if anyone terasa,im sorry.

so ya,i just wanna say,dude,u cant wear whatever u want as long as u are happy,then im fine with it,i dun want u to feel being inside a cage,beos thats not me,i dont like to control people's life and i really hate it..i guess i dun have the enuf strength to help u to chg..so ya..enjoy